I've been calling the team store every few days to see if they have the patches yet. They usually say they are working with the family to decide which charity gets the proceeds.
Today they said the family is reluctant to be seen as "selling" Nick, they are not sure they want to release the patches.
I understand their reservation, but I believe most of the people who want the patch (I guess I am speaking for myself and my friends) really want to honor his memory by wearing the patch, along with the team.
I hope they decide it would be a good thing, because if they don't issue them, someone will start selling bootlegs.